What age group is this program intended for?

The program is aimed at boys aged 14–16 years old. We understand that some boys mature more quickly than others, so if you feel your son would benefit from this experience but falls outside the suggested age range, please reach out and let’s have a conversation. We don’t want anyone to miss out if they truly feel called to participate.

What is a “rite of passage” and why is it important?

A rite of passage marks a meaningful transition—from boyhood into a more conscious, grounded, and responsible stage of life. It’s a way to honour this transformation intentionally, offering challenge, support, and guidance from elders and mentors. For many boys today, this vital experience is missing.

What will my involvement be as a parent?

Fathers or male caregivers will be invited to join the first weekend. This will give you the opportunity to connect with our work and gain insight into the changes your boy will be going through. There will also be opportunities to see your son off at the beginning and to welcome him back during the final rite of passage. These parts are community events, and your presence and support are deeply valued.

Why don’t more programs like this exist?

That’s the problem we are solving. We believe that every boy in New Zealand deserves the right to access a rite of passage, as it’s such a crucial part of their development. There’s an old saying: “A child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth.” This proverb refers to a boy’s connection to community. It has long been true that boys need to feel part of a brotherhood in order to become men. What we provide is a healthy expression of that ancient aspect of our psychological development.

What changes will I see in my boy?

Your boy is on the path to adulthood, and change is inevitable. As a participant in our program, he will be guided and equipped with essential skills and insights to support him in becoming a grounded, responsible, and good young man. How he lives into these values will be shaped by his environment—so it’s important that his home life acknowledges and supports the changes taking place and fosters a strong, respectful relationship with him moving forward.

How do I register or learn more?

You can register after our open day or by contacting us directly. We’d love to talk with you and answer any other questions you may have.